1. Decision To Allow S*x
This will spur up bashing but I can tell you this- NO WOMAN will perfectly
trust the husband who slept with her during dating! None! I
"personally" can't marry a girl I've slept with. So Ladies, s*x won't
make him marry you o! Don't be fooled!
2. Decision To Ignore The "Beatings" And "Cheatings" Of
Today.
Oh girl, he will not change o! Unless you be "mamalawo" wey want
change am. If he hits when there are no much pressure, simple mathematics
should tell you that it can only increase! Love isn't blind, you are!
3. Decision To Walk Away For "Myopic" Reasons.
He may be living in One Room or Self Contain today and a few furniture. That's
not enough excuse to walk away if you're smart and SEES THE SEED OF GREATNESS
IN HIM. You look at them flashy guys with flashy cars, Yes! But life is in
phases, sweetheart. Think deep!
4. Decision To Let Your Anger/ Pride Get The Better Of You.
Anger is like the ™ of most girls today. Any small thing, them don explode! I
tire! Na only you dey! He forgot your birthday, and so what? Be the bigger
person, call him to call you and wish you a happy birthday. It will end in
laughs and kisses instead of disappointment and break up. Master your emotions
sef!
5. Decision To Flirt "A Little" With His Friend(s)
Some girls sha...Are you testing him or what? You know he loves you and you are
secretly enticing his friend and even have plans to get him laid. Only dogs do
that. And you are even in a marriageable age? I laff!
6. Decision To Uphold The "Law Of Feminism".
You are not equal with him. Stop Trying To Be! Not in the sense of potential
but that of Authority. 65% of break ups /divorce is traceable to Feminist
Attributes. It won't hold water!
Even, if you pretend today and tomorrow you show you true colour, he will still
react and that's not what you bargained for...Be yourself!
7. Decision To Start Comparing Him With An Ex.
"X" is that close to "Z" for a reason. The probability of
you getting together in a healthy relationship is slim. Most times, you end up
being friends. Don't compare A to X, they're far apart!
No guy likes comparison, vice versa.
Choices are easy to make but its consequences are difficult to amend.
